Duh, Bitch! You're Powerful
This is the podcast for women who’ve built the career, the income, the independence but still want the husband, the babies, the partnership, and the emotional safety.
Hosted by international love coach Shilpa Cacho, this show exposes the patterns, fears, and survival mechanisms that keep powerhouse women single, stuck, or dating emotionally unavailable men.
You'll learn how to:
• Shift from anxious or avoidant patterns into secure, grounded confidence
• Become the woman that high-caliber masculine men commit to
• Open your body, heart, and nervous system to real love
• Date with clarity, emotional maturity, and self-trust
• Attract your SoulHusband™ the man who leads, chooses, and cherishes you
Expect real talk, science-backed frameworks, feminine embodiment, spiritual revelation, and the occasional “stop sabotaging your own love life” moment.
This is where successful women finally stop intimidating men and start inspiring devotion.
Connect with Shilpa:
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Duh, Bitch! You're Powerful
How You're Cock-Blocking Your Own Happily Ever After
Ditch the Princess Complex: Why You're Cock-Blocking Your Own Happily Ever After
In this conversation, Shilpa discusses the importance of ditching the princess complex and taking ownership of one's own happiness in relationships and life. She emphasizes the need to stop blaming others and instead focus on personal responsibility. Shilpa highlights the significance of cultivating self-worth, setting boundaries, and communicating desires with confidence. She also addresses the impact of past trauma on relationships and the importance of healing and creating safety in the body. Shilpa encourages women to step into their spicy queen energy and prioritize their own needs and pleasure. She concludes by inviting listeners to join her retreat for a transformative journey towards becoming their boldest, truest selves.
Chapters
00:00 Ditch the Princess Complex and Take Ownership of Your Happiness
03:19 Cultivating Self-Worth and Setting Boundaries
06:24 The Impact of Past Trauma on Relationships
14:31 Embracing Spicy Queen Energy and Prioritizing Pleasure
21:36 Join Shilpa's Retreat for a Transformative Journey
"Ditch the princess complex because bitch you're cock blocking your own happily ever after."
"Why we play so damn small in the first place why we get caught up in people -pleasing is Because when you're growing up if you grew up anything like me, which a lot of us did If you're south Asian first as especially Or if you grew up in a family that didn't have the healthiest dynamics You're often told That you"
"If I won the game of love, it made me feel good about myself, quote unquote, sure. Maybe it was a short dopamine hit."
Ditch the princess complex and take ownership of your own happiness in relationships and life.
Cultivate self-worth and set boundaries to attract higher quality relationships.
Heal past trauma and create safety in the body to experience pleasure and intimacy.
Step into your spicy queen energy and prioritize your own needs and desires.
Join Shilpa's retreat for a transformative journey towards becoming your boldest, truest self.
Keywords
princess complex, personal responsibility, self-worth, boundaries, communication, trauma, healing, safety, pleasure, spicy queen energy, retreat
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