Duh, Bitch! You're Powerful
It's time to stop dimming your light and start setting the world on fire. Join sacred disruptor & love coach Shilpa Cacho on a wild ride to self-love, epic relationships, and magnetic AF energy. We're talking raw truths, cosmic insights, and the occasional loving b*tch slap from the universe.
This podcast is your permission slip to be unapologetically YOU.
Get ready to laugh, cry, and maybe pee a little as we unlock your inner goddess and unleash her femme magnetism! Remember, you're the mfing prize, so start acting like it!
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Episodes
44 episodes
Bridging the Gap Between the Life You Have and the Love You Crave
If you’ve been feeling love is so close you can taste it but you’re stuck in overthinking, self-doubt, or old patterns… this episode will hit. Shilpa reveals the missing link between doing all the healing work and actually...
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44:46
The Good Girl is Dead: What It Really Takes to Become the Woman Who Attracts Sacred Love
It’s the truth behind what it really takes to attract sacred, soul-deep love.I talk about the invisible weight I carry as I guide my clients through their healing and what it stirs in my own nervous system as a coach, mother, and w...
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32:23
Your Feminine Power Can Rewire a Man’s Heart
I unpack the real reason so many smart, self-aware women still feel stuck, rejected, or frustrated in love—even after all the healing, therapy, and “doing the work.”We talk about:The hidden ways you still pedestal men ...
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Are You a Safe Space for Love?
What does it really mean to be a safe space for a man—and for yourself?Shilpa unpacks the deeper layers of emotional safety, feminine power, and the kind of devotion that transforms not just your relationships, but your entire l...
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50:30
The Hidden Ways Shame Blocks Love (and How to Break Free)
Shilpa share how shame keeps you blocked in loveFrom the darkest days of April to a full-body awakening, she shares how healing shame in the body is the missing piece for high-achieving women stuck in half-hearted love, people-pleasing, ...
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1:00:35
If You’re Scared to Start Over—Listen to This First
Have you ever stayed too long in something—telling yourself it wasn’t that bad—while secretly dying inside?In this episode, I’m telling the unfiltered story of the man I thought I’d leave my marriage for… and how God used that s...
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33:39
High Achievers, Low Standards: Why Smart Women Still Settle in Love
What happens when you know better… but still find yourself making messy, embarrassing choices in your love life? Shilpa pulls back the curtain on the choices she's ashamed of, the cheating she once justified, and the love ...
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49:47
Intentional Dating Is a Revolution: Inside the Vision Behind Ishq
“Dating apps suck.” That’s the DM I get every week — from women who are done with shallow swiping, ghosting, and feeling like just another profile in a sea of dead-end chats.Today, I’m joined by Nisha P., co-founder of Ishq...
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28:41
Why Get Married If Everyone’s Cheating?
In this brutally honest episode, Shilpa sits down with her husband Isaac for a no-holds-barred conversation about the silent cracks that form in even the most loving relationships — and how easy it is to cross the line without even rea...
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50:18
Men Lead with Their Dicks—Until a Woman Leads with Depth
He’s shirtless in his profile. You’re in a tight dress, serving bombshell energy. You both say you want a life partner. So why does it feel like everyone’s playing the wrong damn game?In this raw, spicy epis...
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24:40
Why You’re Addicted to Men Who Don’t Want You (And What to Do About It)
Unfiltered, unscripted, and wildly needed. In this power-packed episode, intimacy coach Shilpa and her husband Isaac go all in on the raw truth about modern dating—from dating apps and ghosting to why women secretly sabotage...
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41:06
Your Dating Profile Is Your Portal — Are You Attracting Love or Repelling It?
If you’re on the dating apps but feeling frustrated, overlooked, ghosted, or stuck in the “men are trash” loop—this episode is your wake-up call.Shilpa is breaking ALL the rules (and illusions) about modern dating and showing you why you...
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29:12
Why You Don't Need to Be 'Fully Healed' to Find Love Again
Can you find true love while still carrying pieces of your past relationship? In this episode, Shilpa shares her controversial truth: she wasn't fully over her ex when she got married again—just 20 months after ending a 10-year relationship.
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Season 3
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Episode 4
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34:36
From 'I'm Fine' to Fully Alive
Join Shilpa and Tiffany as they dive deep into what it truly means to reclaim your aliveness in a world that profits from feminine exhaustion. They share their personal journeys through divorce, depletion, and the powerful transformations that ...
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Season 3
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Episode 3
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37:41
Healing the Marriage Wound: Your Path to Real Love
If you've ever caught yourself thinking "marriage isn't for me" or noticed that bitter feeling when scrolling past yet another relationship post... this episode is calling your name.In "Healing the Marriage Wound: Your Path to Real Love,...
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53:08
The Healing Trap: How Working on Yourself Might Be Blocking Your Dream Relationship
In this powerful episode, Shilpa explores how excessive "working on yourself" can paradoxically block you from finding the love you desire. She makes a crucial distinction between healthy personal growth and the endless analysis that keeps wome...
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Season 3
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Episode 1
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54:49
Breaking the Silence: A Journey Through Divorce
In this conversation, Manny Kaur shares her personal journey through divorce, the challenges she faced, and the empowerment she found in her healing process. She discusses the importance of therapy, the impact of cultural expectations, and ...
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32:08
When Leaving Leads You Home: A Raw Conversation About Divorce, Healing & Freedom
In this raw and illuminating episode, Jessie Arora shares her journey through divorce, healing, and reclaiming her power. From experiencing domestic violence to finding the courage to leave a 10-year marriage, Jesse offers profound insights abo...
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Season 2
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33:26
The easiest part is finding the person. The hardest part is remaining committed.
Join us for an unfiltered conversation about what it really takes to build a lasting marriage. If you've ever felt like running away from love or wondered if relationships should be this hard, this episode is for you. In this intim...
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Season 2
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35:36
I didn't think I'd find love so quickly
From almost marrying a guy for a green card to finding real love across continents, I'm spilling the whole messy journey that led me to my soulmate. Let me show you why you keep falling for unavailable men, doing long distance when you swore yo...
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Season 2
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24:24
Are all Indian men narcissists?
Stop blaming men for your dating problems - I'm about to show you what's really going on. As someone who's dealt with cultural drama, jealous partners, and my own messy patterns, I'm breaking down the real reason your relationships aren't worki...
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Season 2
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16:57
Why Men Need 'Training' in Relationships
Love coach Shilpa and her husband Isaac dive into the controversial idea that men need "training" in relationships. They explore how childhood experiences shape adult behavior, discuss the challenges modern couples face, and offer insights on e...
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Season 2
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32:01
The Power of Deep Healing: Breaking Through Love Blocks That Come From Childhood Trauma
You know how I'm always preaching about deep work? Well, I just got served a heaping dose of my own medicine, and let me tell you, it's powerful.I did one of my own visualization exercises (yeah, the ones I use with my clients) and...
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Season 2
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Episode 4
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14:30
Unleash Your Spicy Queen: Commanding Love and Respect in relationships
Discover how to tap into your "spicy queen energy" to inspire profound changes in your love life. Learn the art of setting standards, communicating needs, and fostering deep connections that last a lifetime. This episode empowers you to break p...
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