Duh, Bitch! You're Powerful
It's time to stop dimming your light and start setting the world on fire. Join sacred disruptor & love coach Shilpa Cacho on a wild ride to self-love, epic relationships, and magnetic AF energy. We're talking raw truths, cosmic insights, and the occasional loving b*tch slap from the universe.
This podcast is your permission slip to be unapologetically YOU.
Get ready to laugh, cry, and maybe pee a little as we unlock your inner goddess and unleash her femme magnetism! Remember, you're the mfing prize, so start acting like it!
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Episodes
36 episodes
Why Get Married If Everyone’s Cheating?
In this brutally honest episode, Shilpa sits down with her husband Isaac for a no-holds-barred conversation about the silent cracks that form in even the most loving relationships — and how easy it is to cross the line without even rea...
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50:18
Men Lead with Their Dicks—Until a Woman Leads with Depth
He’s shirtless in his profile. You’re in a tight dress, serving bombshell energy. You both say you want a life partner. So why does it feel like everyone’s playing the wrong damn game?In this raw, spicy epis...
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24:40
Why You’re Addicted to Men Who Don’t Want You (And What to Do About It)
Unfiltered, unscripted, and wildly needed. In this power-packed episode, intimacy coach Shilpa and her husband Isaac go all in on the raw truth about modern dating—from dating apps and ghosting to why women secretly sabotage...
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41:06
Your Dating Profile Is Your Portal — Are You Attracting Love or Repelling It?
If you’re on the dating apps but feeling frustrated, overlooked, ghosted, or stuck in the “men are trash” loop—this episode is your wake-up call.Shilpa is breaking ALL the rules (and illusions) about modern dating and showing you why you...
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29:12
Why You Don't Need to Be 'Fully Healed' to Find Love Again
Can you find true love while still carrying pieces of your past relationship? In this episode, Shilpa shares her controversial truth: she wasn't fully over her ex when she got married again—just 20 months after ending a 10-year relationship.
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Season 3
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Episode 4
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34:36
From 'I'm Fine' to Fully Alive
Join Shilpa and Tiffany as they dive deep into what it truly means to reclaim your aliveness in a world that profits from feminine exhaustion. They share their personal journeys through divorce, depletion, and the powerful transformations that ...
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Season 3
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Episode 3
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37:41
Healing the Marriage Wound: Your Path to Real Love
If you've ever caught yourself thinking "marriage isn't for me" or noticed that bitter feeling when scrolling past yet another relationship post... this episode is calling your name.In "Healing the Marriage Wound: Your Path to Real Love,...
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53:08
The Healing Trap: How Working on Yourself Might Be Blocking Your Dream Relationship
In this powerful episode, Shilpa explores how excessive "working on yourself" can paradoxically block you from finding the love you desire. She makes a crucial distinction between healthy personal growth and the endless analysis that keeps wome...
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Season 3
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Episode 1
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54:49
Breaking the Silence: A Journey Through Divorce
In this conversation, Manny Kaur shares her personal journey through divorce, the challenges she faced, and the empowerment she found in her healing process. She discusses the importance of therapy, the impact of cultural expectations, and ...
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32:08
When Leaving Leads You Home: A Raw Conversation About Divorce, Healing & Freedom
In this raw and illuminating episode, Jessie Arora shares her journey through divorce, healing, and reclaiming her power. From experiencing domestic violence to finding the courage to leave a 10-year marriage, Jesse offers profound insights abo...
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Season 2
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33:26
The easiest part is finding the person. The hardest part is remaining committed.
Join us for an unfiltered conversation about what it really takes to build a lasting marriage. If you've ever felt like running away from love or wondered if relationships should be this hard, this episode is for you. In this intim...
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Season 2
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35:36
I didn't think I'd find love so quickly
From almost marrying a guy for a green card to finding real love across continents, I'm spilling the whole messy journey that led me to my soulmate. Let me show you why you keep falling for unavailable men, doing long distance when you swore yo...
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Season 2
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24:24
Are all Indian men narcissists?
Stop blaming men for your dating problems - I'm about to show you what's really going on. As someone who's dealt with cultural drama, jealous partners, and my own messy patterns, I'm breaking down the real reason your relationships aren't worki...
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Season 2
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16:57
Why Men Need 'Training' in Relationships
Love coach Shilpa and her husband Isaac dive into the controversial idea that men need "training" in relationships. They explore how childhood experiences shape adult behavior, discuss the challenges modern couples face, and offer insights on e...
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Season 2
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32:01
The Power of Deep Healing: Breaking Through Love Blocks That Come From Childhood Trauma
You know how I'm always preaching about deep work? Well, I just got served a heaping dose of my own medicine, and let me tell you, it's powerful.I did one of my own visualization exercises (yeah, the ones I use with my clients) and...
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Season 2
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Episode 4
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14:30
Unleash Your Spicy Queen: Commanding Love and Respect in relationships
Discover how to tap into your "spicy queen energy" to inspire profound changes in your love life. Learn the art of setting standards, communicating needs, and fostering deep connections that last a lifetime. This episode empowers you to break p...
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26:10
Rewriting Your Story After Divorce
Shilpa and her husband Isaac discuss Shilpa's journey from feeling behind in life to moving forward becoming a confident woman. They talk about the healing and transformation that occurred in their marriage and the importance of doing the...
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48:52
How You're Cock-Blocking Your Own Happily Ever After
Ditch the Princess Complex: Why You're Cock-Blocking Your Own Happily Ever AfterIn this conversation, Shilpa discusses the importance of ditching the princess complex and taking ownership of one's own happiness in relationships and life...
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38:25
Ditching Shame, Serving Truth: Your Permission Slip to Be Real AF
Get ready for a wild ride, Queen! Shilpa and Libby are spilling the tea on shame, and it's about to get real AF. These Spicy Queens dive deep into:• Why kicking shame to the curb is your ticket to living your best life<...
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Season 2
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Episode 1
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1:00:54
Human Design: Discovering What Makes YOU Different From Everyone Else
Libby Christenson, my life coach, is with us today! I literally started this podcast because of my work with her. Libby introduced me to the world of human design and how it plays a role in who we are. My initial session w...
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Season 1
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Episode 20
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47:04
How to Manifest the Life of Your Dreams
The power of manifestation and the law of attraction have transformed my life and I knew I had to share the secrets with you all. That is why I just had to have Becky, a manifestation and mindset coach, on with us! Becky is a living example of ...
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Season 1
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Episode 19
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44:46
Overcoming Our Relationship Hurdles
I have Isaac back again to discuss how we've survived jealousy, fights, family disapproval, and a whole lot more to create a relationship that we never imagined we could have. Having gone through a divorce myself and Isaac and I cheati...
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Season 1
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Episode 18
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1:18:17
Are you ready to get married?: How to prepare yourself for the next step and how to survive the first year of marriage
My interview with Dr.Maha is packed with info about how to overcome relationship hurdles, dealing with the in-laws, tackling mismatched sex drives, and how to survive the first year of marriage and create a healthy relationship that can last. <...
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Season 1
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Episode 17
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53:32
Connect to Your Pleasure: Orgasms, Toys, and Oral sex
My interview with sexpert, Goody Howard, is one you have to hear if you're wanting to learn more about how to spice things up in the bedroom. I know many women struggle with experiencing the "Big O". I used to be one of them. This is why I knew...
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Season 1
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Episode 16
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52:47
Dating 101: 3 month No Kissing Rule!?!
With Chantal Heide's massive following on TikTok and years of experience with helping people find true love, I figured there must be some truth to this no kissing for 3 months rule of hers. Tune in to learn how to stop kissing frogs...
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Season 1
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Episode 15
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52:35